#135 - The Life Reset Button || A Step by Step Process for Men at a Crossroads with Nick Shelton PT. 1
If you have built a life that looks successful but feels empty, Nick Shelton lays out a practical reset framework rooted in one thing…structure. You will hear how a retired Air Force veteran used simple processes to rebuild purpose, identity, and connection after early retirement.
- Who Nick Shelton is…Air Force veteran…20 years in oil and gas…retired at 49…traveled to 40 plus countries
- Why “freedom” can quietly turn into drift…and how lack of structure can create depression
- The shift from achievement based identity to relationship based meaning
- The core principle…show up…then find the next doable step
- How to neutralize imposter syndrome by asking “How does this work”…and letting people teach you
- “Normal guy…deluxe”…healthy self esteem without peacocking
- Micro miracles…how Nick creates meaning by making someone else’s day
- The yacht story…why shared experiences rewire purpose faster than solo success
- Key sound bites worth pulling for clips
- “Just show up…you can walk in and leave…but be in the room.”
- “Structure is where I thrive.”
- “Achievement fades…relationship based meaning stays.”
Links mentioned and relevant
- Subscribe to The Personal Success Podcast on YouTube…youtube.com/@thepersonalsuccesspodcast
- Nick Shelton’s website…The Reset Button…https://resettheman.com/
- Connect with Nick on LinkedIn…https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicholasleonshelton
- Nick’s book…An Introvert’s Guide to World Domination…Amazon…https://www.amazon.com/Introverts-Guide-World-Domination-Networker/dp/1544515677
Nick’s TEDx talk…A creative solution to social anxiety…https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TAXFC2w-WiA