Nick breaks down how to make change stick when the “old you” keeps trying to come back. You will get practical tools…identity anchors…environment resets…and a simple tactic to rebuild confidence and community fast.

We cover...

• The Reset Button framework overview…audit…honor and release…build the new version
• The “burning ceremony” concept…releasing the old identity so the new one can lead
• How to make the reset stick
• Private “uniforms” as identity anchors…watch…bracelet…necklace…  
• Curating your environment…small changes that signal the new chapter
• The 3 Class Rule to build a new social identity fast
• Dance class…Cooking class…Language class
• Why…you cannot hide…you practice being the new you…with people who do not know the old you
• How to introduce yourself without titles…introduce by what you are working on
• The Dignity Scan…proof you are worth rebuilding before you try to rebuild
• Failure reframed…make it a story…use experiments…document what works
• Why “crossroads” is bigger than retirement…divorce…major life transition…or the quiet realization that nothing is changing and it needs to

Links mentioned and relevant

• Subscribe to The Personal Success Podcast on YouTube…youtube.com/@thepersonalsuccesspodcast
• Nick Shelton’s website…The Reset Button…https://resettheman.com/   
• Connect with Nick on LinkedIn…https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicholasleonshelton   
• Nick’s book…An Introvert’s Guide to World Domination…Amazon…https://www.amazon.com/Introverts-Guide-World-Domination-Networker/dp/1544515677   
• Nick’s TEDx talk…A creative solution to social anxiety…https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TAXFC2w-WiA   

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