#95 - The Leadership Shift No One Talks About: From Self-Criticism to Self-Compassion with Massimo Backus

#95 - The Leadership Shift No One Talks About: From Self-Criticism to Self-Compassion

In this conversation, Massimo Backus shares his journey as an executive coach and author, emphasizing the importance of self-compassion in leadership. He discusses personal experiences that led to profound insights about self-trust and the need for internal validation. The dialogue explores the intersection of self-compassion and leadership, the significance of slowing down, and the challenges of navigating change in a rapidly evolving work environment. Massimo also highlights the value of community connection and the transformative power of sharing personal stories.

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Chapters

01:50 Introduction to Massimo Backus

03:03 The Importance of Self-Compassion in Leadership

06:15 Personal Journey of Self-Discovery

10:12 The Hoffman Process and Its Impact

15:14 Experiencing Self-Love and Acceptance

19:22 Defining Self-Compassion

24:12 Practical Steps to Cultivate Self-Compassion

29:00 The Power of Slowing Down

33:31 Understanding Safety and Defense Mechanisms

35:23 Understanding Self-Compassion in Leadership

36:38 Transitioning to Human-First Leadership

37:28 Creating Safety for Effective Leadership

39:10 The Journey to Self-Compassion

41:53 The Role of Self-Trust in Leadership

44:09 Internal vs. External Validation

46:09 The Importance of Being Fully Resourced

49:33 The Purpose of 'Human First, Leader Second'

53:40 Navigating Change in the Age of AI 

59:32 The Value of Pausing for Purpose

01:02:05 The Power of Connection and Vulnerability